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Update – Sunday July 27th 2008
Some help/resources links about the xbox live chat issue:
Microsoft: Connection tests: NAT
TeamXbox Forum: Can’t Play With Friends on Xbox Live
Update – Sunday July 20th 2008
On June 20th, exactly a month back, i wrote an e-mail to Microsoft Live Support team asking for help on this issue.
So many of you have gone through this and seeing my incoming stats to this entry is just very worrying.
After explaining the problem with as many details as possible, giving them the link to this entry and pointing out to your comments, i kind of expected them to send me a nice answer that would help us fix this issue.
Instead, i got this:
Dear Customer,
Thank you for your email. In order to respond effectively to your email we need to investigate further. Therefore please contact the Xbox Customer Support team .
Kind Regards,
<Lily
Xbox Support
Ummm…pardon me,miss Lily, but didn’t i just contacted the support team? Aren’t you supposed to assign this to someone in your team and have an answer sent to me about the issue’s status?
See, i do service desk and i wouldn’t dare sending this confusing e-mail to my customers.
Are you looking into my issue or why are you asking me to contact the Support team when i just did it?
Thanks anyway dear. I will contact you again if that’s how things work.
Recap: My e-mail to Microsoft Xbox support was unsuccessful even though i gave them the best possible reason to look into this: It’s paying customers.
Maybe if i try again it’ll work.
If any of you have contacted the Support for this matter, please let us know what their answer was? Is there any fix for the connection besides the fix i posted below last year?
April 26 2007
Many people on the Xbox Live are having problems connecting to a friend’s game, such as GRAW 2 or Rainbow Six – Vegas, and they even can’t connect to each other via the voice chat.
So, how can that be fixed?
There is a solution and here’s how I fixed my problem:
1) If you are on a wireless router, and using a wireless card to connect to Xbox Live, then you might want to consider putting your 360 on wire, because connections on wires are more stable.
If your router is not compatible with the Xbox 360, then you might consider upgrading.
A list of compatible routers can be found on Xbox.com.
I have a US Robotics Access Point Router and I hooked up to it a D-Link switch with 5 extra ports, then connected my 360 to it. Since then, is all stable.
If your NAT (Network Address Translation) is set on Strict or Moderate, you need to open it.
To do that, go to your router’s control panel and look up your details.
You’ll probably need to open some ports for your 360, so you need to go to PortForward.com and look up your router, then look up the Xbox 360 ports that you need to open and how to do it.
It’s all there.
Quick note: In order to make this work, the ports you’re forwarding, must reach the Xbox’s IP address, and that is why you’ll have to put it on static IP….or it won’t work.
2) If your Xbox isn’t on a static IP address, then it’s time for you to change that.
First, go to your Dashboard and then System. Open the Network Settings,then Edit Settings.
Now, write down the IP that is already assigned, along with your Primary DNS Server, Subnet Mask and the Default Gateway details.
If you wish, you can add as a Secondary DNS Server, one of the following :
208.67.220.220
208.67.222.222
These DNS servers are from http://www.opendns.com and they are a bit faster.
Now, Click on Edit Settings again and set everything on Manual, then insert the details you just wrote down.
When everything is done, test your Live connection and see if is all working fine.
Since i changed to Static IP and hooked up the D-Link switch, i have no problems anymore.
Hope that helps some of you.
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March 4, 2010 - 8:02 PM
I use my laptop as the xboxlive router i could connect to friends games fine but a few das ago when i invite a friend or they invite me to a game it will not let me any help
July 18, 2009 - 10:02 PM
Hi Steve,
Thanks for the tip. UPnP can be an issue but i believe it is enabled by default. Glad it worked for you though.
July 18, 2009 - 8:02 PM
Hi Steve,
Thanks for the tip. UPnP can be an issue but i believe it is enabled by default. Glad it worked for you though.
July 18, 2009 - 2:02 PM
Hi Steve,
Thanks for the tip. UPnP can be an issue but i believe it is enabled by default. Glad it worked for you though.
March 3, 2009 - 7:22 PM
I had this problem with 1 or 2 of my friends and after trying all this it still did not work but i did the xbox live test which sugested enabling UPnP which solved the problem straight away so that might help you guys
February 7, 2009 - 11:50 AM
hey i have this problem too i opened My NAT settings and everything and it still wont let me join my friends its very frustrating so what do i do? do need better internet? or have a wired connection? or what?
February 6, 2009 - 1:33 AM
I\ve tried almost everything, lets hope this thread is still active.
Ok, there are three guys each with an xbox.
All of us are running our xbox through a computer so we can pick up the wireless signal.
My housemate Josh and I are having problems connecting to each others games, although we can both connect to our fellow housemate Andrew (who lives downstairs)
In order for josh and i to play we have to have andrew set up a room and we join him.
what could cause this problem?
being as how we’re all on the same router.
could it be a Vista issue seeing as how the downstairs computer is the only one still running XP.
January 4, 2009 - 8:23 PM
Just an update on my situation. My friend and I that live in the same town with the same ISP could not play against each other…see post above.
Well I am using an old Linksys game adaptor that connects wirelessly to my linksys router. I really thought it might be the router causing the problem. Turns out it was the linksys game adaptor. I recently attached my xbox 360 directly to my router and my friend and I were able to play. Not sure why the adaptor causes a problem, but it did.
January 4, 2009 - 8:01 PM
Hey can anyone help i try to send an invite to friends to join private chat and it says cannot join could be due to network problems or something can anyone email me any suggestions my email (nathandolan1184@hotmail.co.uk)
Thanks
January 1, 2009 - 4:45 AM
Okay, I play Rainbow 6: Vegas and I can’t connect to this certain friend of mine who plays as well. Neither of us get errors with our NAT, apparently they’re open. I’ve tried every little thing (combinations of opening DMZ, forwarding ports, and enabling UPnP on both my router and my dsl settings) and we still can’t connect to eachother. Can’t even private chat…
Any pointers?
December 29, 2008 - 8:02 AM
me and my friend keep trying to party up but even when both of our NAT’s are open it still says it cant connect because the “networks may be incompatible, your NAT is set to open which is the most compatible…” plz help none of the xbox support was relevent.
December 12, 2008 - 11:03 PM
I had the same problem of not being able to connect to one person but being able to connect to everyone else. The way that we fixed it was both of us setting our IP config to automatic.
December 9, 2008 - 5:02 AM
Im having trouble joining my cousins party. Every time they send me an invite it says cant connect to host. And thats before the game starts. So its not that its full. its in the lobby before joining a game. but when my brother plays we can all play in the same party when he sends invites. He uses the wireless router and i use the cable.And we both use the same IP. Would the problem be me disconnecting the cable or my 360 every day? Please help. Thanks.
December 3, 2008 - 8:20 AM
I have one friend who i really wanna play with, but i cant. I can play with everyone on my friend list but him, though its possible that there is one more person this happens with, though i havent actually tried to join his games more than once. We cant do private chat and can only sometimes join the same game if somone else hosts it(when we did that in call of duty 4, the game just started getting really laggy) and on the rare occasion that we can both join a game that someone has hosted, we cant hear eachother when we talk. I pretty much can only text message him on xbox live. Now that we recently got Left 4 Dead, when i try to join his game it says there were network problems, or when i look at his lobby, it says he is in an unjoinable game(though i should be able to join his game, its not full or anything). I dont know what to do cause my NAT is open, and his NAT is moderate and even sometimes open. I have a hard wire connection and so does he. I dont really know what could be wrong. Any help??